EULOGIES

A eulogy is when someone pays tribute to a person’s life by saying a few words that will help remember that person at the service. You can prepare a speech yourself, or you may prefer to read a favourite poem or passage. The eulogy could be given by family, friends or work colleagues and could even be a letter written by your loved one, read out during the service.

Writing a eulogy – checklist

Here are some prompts to help you get started in writing a eulogy:

• Who am I speaking to?

• How would the person like to be remembered?

• What made them special?

• Favourite pastimes and interests, likes and dislikes?

• When were they happiest?

• Who was really close to them?

• What did I really like about them?

• What did other people really like about them?

• What are the highlights of their life story?

• If I could say only three things about them, what would they be?

• Who can help me check my facts?

• Do I want someone else to give the eulogy on my behalf on the day?

• Is anyone else planning to speak about the person at the funerals?

• Do we need to avoid saying the same thing twice?

We can advise on writing a eulogy for the funerals service.